
It’s the first Friday of the month and is it time for Friday Cocktails ! Gosh it’s hard to believe that October is almost over! I mean this year has just flown by and we will soon be getting ready for Thanksgiving and Christmas. Can you believe that?
We are down to the last few days before Ma’s surgery and she is starting to get super nervous. On top of that I am a bit nervous because the kids will be heading to spend the first week of November with their dad. It always makes me nervous when they are with him. Don’t ask me why, it just does. However, we felt it would be easier and less stressful if Ma could recover that week without them underfoot. It will be less stressful on me as well since I am the one who will be having to help her at least for the first couple of days. She’s having eye surgery and it’s pretty routine but my mother turns into a big baby anytime she is sick or down for the count.

Time For The Hot Drinks
One thing I know I am more than ready for is the hot drinks! In the warmer months I don’t drink any hot tea or chocolate in the mornings. However, when the weather turns cooler I get up earlier so I can sit on my back porch, wrapped up, and watch the sun come up. There is just something about sitting out there with a hot drink in my hands.
I feel like I am getting my day started off the right way. I don’t really do anything but sit and enjoy my drink. Waiting and watching for those first peeks of sunshine to make their way across my yard. There is so much peace in it. In the winter, I feel revived and there isn’t any major reason for it. I just love the fall and winter months.
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Kids in the Fall

It’s no big secret that I live in a wooded area and one thing we get a lot of in the fall is leaves. We spent countless hours during the fall raking leaves and there always seems to be more the next day. For the younger kids though these leaves are countless hours of fun. At least the ones we have gotten raked into piles.
They like to undo the piles! There doesn’t seem to be anything better than taking what we have raked and throwing it around so we have to rake it again. If that isn’t their favorite pastime I will eat my drawers! I would love to say this is something new but they have always done this. If they aren’t throwing them around their climbing on the piles and rolling around in them. The satins I have to get out of the laundry because let me tell you that leaf piles in Georgia ain’t like those nice pretty ones you see. They are covered in mud and red clay at the bottom. It’s gross! Well, except at in my older brother’s yard. It’s like he would be offended if his weren’t perfect. So, I loving take the kids to visit when I know he will be raking that weekend. Gotta spread that joy around.
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I’m very excited for the holidays this year, and I can’t wait to celebrate them with family.
I’m happy about summer being over. This weather is my favorite. I’m looking forward to Thanksgiving and Christmas.
I am excited for the holidays. I love time spent with family.
I’m excited for Christmas.
festive
I am excited about the holidays but also stressed a little about them already.
I am super excited. I love this time of year. I love all the decorating and all the food.
I love Thanksgiving family time
I am feeling a bit overwhelmed with Christmas on its way. Not sure how we are celebrating this year.
I am excited for the Holidays, Christmas is my favorite.
I’m really excited! I love all the holidays mashed up together in the calendar.
I feel uneasy. Too much Covid still running around.
Thanks for the contest.
A little depressed as I have no family.
I’m excited! It will be nice to see our families this year.
I am actually looking forward to the holiday’s this year. Though it is all revolving around food and menu planning for all 3, lol
I’m looking forward to them a lot. We have a great time visiting friends in Detroit, Michigan.
I’m not religious and don’t care for traditions, so I’m indifferent.
I’m in Canada, so we had Thanksgiving earlier this month. Still–it’s all going too fast!
I am unfestive
the holiday season makes me a little anxious because i want to do right by my kids.
I am not at all excited about the upcoming Holidays. I wish we could just skip into spring.
I feel fine. Thanksgiving is over, Halloween is over. Now Christmas starts…
My anxiety for the holidays has already started.
I’m excited! I love this time of the year.
This year we are seeing folks, and I’m excited! We’ll see my brother, his family, and our child for Thanksgiving. For Christmas, we’ll see my nephew, his wife, and our child! Yay!
Love the holidays but always somewhat sad for the ones I lost and the people I miss
I am super excited for the holidays! It is my favorite time of year!
I’m so excited!! I can’t wait to put up all my decorations and see all the lights! We plan to have all the fun we can have and really try to find joy in the season.
I love this time of year, knowing that I’ll be spending more time with family and friends enjoying fine food and fellowship. I try not to think about the weight that I’ll gain or the fact that I can never afford to gift all of my loved ones with awesome presents…
Great! Love the Holidays season! ❤️
I am excited about the holidays, and look forward to visiting with family and friends.
I am so excited the holidays are here. Such a magical time of year. I love all the lights and music…and time with family!
I think I’m equally stressed and excited!
Im excited and stressed that the year is flying by
I am excited about the holidays.