To say that life is challenging is an understatement. It’s extremely difficult. What’s more, nobody can really prepare you for how challenging it will be or even provide you with good techniques and strategies for mitigating the issues that you face.
If you’re in a bit of a bind right now, this post can help. In it, we discuss some of the things that you can do, even if you feel sad, depressed, angry or miserable right now.
Spend Time With People Who Are Good For You
There’s no substitute for spending time with people who are good for you. You tend to reflect how they feel, and vice versa.
You probably instinctively know who the people are in your life that drag you down. You don’t have to eliminate them from your life completely but, at the very least, you want to cut down your interactions with them to manageable amounts, perhaps once a month.
Take A Look At How You’re Spending Your Time
Be honest with yourself about how you’re spending your time. Are you using the hours that you’re given each day wisely, or are you frittering them away on things that are counterproductive?
If it’s the latter, reconsider your priorities. Ask yourself how many hours of social media you’re consuming each day and whether you might be better served putting your time into other things.
Get Over Your Bad Habits
Practically everyone has bad habits. These are things that we do to make ourselves feel better but that actually harm us. Opioids are an extreme example, something that will have you going to a suboxone clinic for treatment, but there are others. Watching too much TV, eating all the wrong foods, and getting into fights with your relatives are all issues.
Challenge Yourself Each Day
You don’t have to set big challenges for yourself in life. In fact, that can be counterproductive because it feels overwhelming. Instead, setting smaller challenges that all add up to a big achievement is generally the route to success.
For instance, you could challenge yourself each day by agreeing to earn and save a certain amount every 24 hours. Or instead of telling yourself, “I’m going to lose fifty pounds,” you could set yourself the much easier task of preparing yourself a healthy meal. With enough good food, the fifty pounds will take care of itself.
Set Goals
Goal setting is something that people do to help them achieve the tangible things that they want in life. It gives them a sense of direction and, often, the motivation that they need to get to where they want to be in life.
The trick here is to choose goals that make sense for you. Don’t listen to what society tells you to do.
Do What You Love More
Lastly, you’ll want to think about spending more time doing what you love. If you’re stuck in a dead-end job that you hate, you’re going to spend most of your life wishing that you were somewhere else enjoying yourself.
I live in a small Georgia town that you most likely have never heard of and I LOVE it! My house is more than full as I am a single mother of four & caregiver to my aging mother and uncle. Lover of all things Outlander. Goes to the beat of her own drum woman.