Have you ever needed to ask someone for anything and weren’t sure how to make the person agree with you? It can be difficult and disheartening to be turned down, whether at your job, school, or home. It could also be a crush you have watched from a distance for some time.
It might be challenging if you like the person and seek to start something serious with them. While there’s no assurance that you’ll be able to persuade her to accept your proposal, there are tactics you may employ to improve your odds dramatically.
Become Friends With Her Friends
If you are afraid of approaching her, start by befriending her friends so that they can get a sense of who you are. By the time you get the confidence to approach her, they will already know all there is to know about you.
The friends always have a significant role to play when she is making the big decision of whether to accept you or not. Therefore, if her friends like you, she is more likely to say yes. Additionally, hanging out with her friends gives you higher chances for her to experience you and get to like you before you pop the question.
Get To Know Her
If you are serious about this girl, you need to know her well. So you can get to interact with her as much as possible, possibly in public settings. Try to understand what makes her happy and what she likes and dislikes to ensure that you are on her excellent books.
Additionally, you need to know more about her character, personality, her interests, and how she spends most of her time.
Most importantly, remember to find out what you have in common and what you can get to do together. This information would significantly improve your relations, and you would have an idea of how to impress her and keep her interested even after she says yes.
Let Her Know You Are Interested In Her
Once you get to know her, you can subtly suggest that you are interested in her by asking her out on friend dates, bringing her food and her favorite snacks, complimenting her once in a while. Moreover, you can get her gifts once in a while as they will warm her heart and get her to like you more. You could also get her red roses to bring the message loud and clear to her that you are interested in her. However, you should know that it is quite a bold move as she would already see your intentions with that, and if she doesn’t like you, she might turn them down. However, that shouldn’t worry you so much since it would save you the embarrassment and humiliation of her saying no to your face when you ask her the big question of being your girlfriend.
Conclusion
Once you have gone through these tips, you will know whether she likes you. Moreover, if she had not noticed you before, she would have seen you and would have given you a thought. So when you pop the question, she would not be all surprised, and the chances of her accepting to be your girlfriend would have increased significantly.
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