If you’ve got a court date, it’s understandable if you’re nervous about it. Court is typically reserved for serious, potentially life changing events or can represent a lot of money.
So, you want to ensure that your court experience goes as smoothly as possible. While you can’t always control the results, you can increase your chances of a better ruling, as well as reduce some of the stress associated with the day.
Without any further ado, here are some tips to help with your upcoming court date.
Find the Right Attorney
Law is a tricky thing, and when you break it down, there are so many different types of laws, courts, and lawyers, that it’s easy to get things wrong. Attorneys train to specialize in these different areas of law, so while it can be easy to get confused, it’s important to do your research when looking for the right lawyer for your needs.
For example, if you’ve been implicated in a criminal case, you will need to hire a criminal defense attorney who is familiar with that kind of case. A real estate or commercial lawyer won’t be helpful, because they simply aren’t as familiar with the laws or arguments that will apply to your case. The more specific you are when finding an appropriate lawyer, the better it will be for your case.
Arrange Your Life and Family
Once you receive a court date, it’s imperative that you turn up. There are very few good reasons not to make it to your court date and, even if it’s not strictly mandatory to attend, it’s highly recommended. If you don’t even show up, you aren’t showing respect to the judge or whoever else is involved in your case.
If you have work or other responsibilities, arrange them around your court date. If you have children, it’s a good idea to make sure they’re looked after.
There are rarely times when it’s a good idea for your kids to be in court, especially if they’re younger. Court is stressful enough for adults attending, let alone children.
In some cases, such as family court or if they’re involved directly in a case, it may be necessary for your children to attend. In this case, do what you can to keep them calm and, if appropriate, well informed.
Show Respect
While your lawyer will do most of the legwork and will guide you through the court process, you can still have an effect on the proceedings.
While court primarily deals with facts and figures, your conduct can impact the result of the ruling. Remember, there are people involved as well.
It’s important to show respect while in court. You can show respect by how you dress and act. Dress in a conservative, businesslike manner. Suits are typically a good option for men and women alike. You want to look smart and respectable.
You should only ever speak when spoken to and, even though it may be difficult, control your emotional responses to what may come out in the courtroom. Even if the case doesn’t go your way, this can make a lot of difference.
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Donna says
Good tips! I imagine that would be a very stressful situation.
Tina F says
These are great tips if you ever have to go to court.
Adriane says
Court is stressful