Your Wedding Vows #BEWedding

The most important part of any wedding are the vows. They are the words any bride waits not only to say but to hear. The hardest thing nowadays is deciding what vows you are going to say. You no longer have to choose the traditional route, although you certainly can if that is what you choose.

You can choose to write your own vows where you each say all the things that you want to say. If you go this route I would suggest typing them up on note cards. After all hand writings can get confusing sometimes and you don’t want to misread something you have written. Another option is to simply wing it and say whatever it is that you are each feeling in the moment. Of course you do run the risk of saying something you don’t mean to but it can be funny as well.

Brides and grooms sometimes get so choke up trying to get the words out and deciding what to say and what to leave out. We left out the “Does anyone object” part because I didn’t want to have to turn around and stomp my feet at my mother like a little child. In my defense I can tell you that both of my brothers told me they considered doing the same thing for the same reason.

This time when we remarry we are choosing something a little different. Our vows have been pre-written and are not the traditional vows but what we feel in our hearts. also I will be saying my vows in English while Edgar says his in Spanish. It is our way of showing just how blended and happy we are. This time we are choosing what we want and the way we want it.