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What to Do When Your Kid Wants to Quit Their Instrument

Mar 06, 2025 | Rita

What to Do When Your Kid Wants to Quit
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Okay, so at first, it was magical. The new instrument, the first few notes, the excitement of playing an actual song (even if it was just “Twinkle Twinkle” at half speed). The house filled with the slightly off-key sound of progress, and you were raising a musical child.

Now? Well, that once-beloved instrument is shoved in a corner, completely ignored. Actually, just the mere mention of practice is met with dramatic groans, eye rolls, and a sudden urgent need to do homework (which was never a priority before). Basically, the enthusiasm has crashed, and quitting seems inevitable. But is this just a rough patch, or has the love affair with music truly ended? Well, before making any big decisions, it’s worth figuring out why they want to quit in the first place.

Is It Boredom or Frustration?

For starters, every kid who picks up an instrument will hit a wall at some point. No, really, it’s true. So at first, everything is new and exciting. But then the reality sets in, learning music takes work. Songs get harder, progress slows down, and suddenly, playing isn’t as effortless as it looked in that YouTube tutorial.

Now, you have to keep in mind that boredom and frustration aren’t the same thing. Boredom means they aren’t excited about the music they’re playing. Maybe they’re stuck on repetitive exercises that make practice feel like a chore. But frustration, on the other hand, means they’re struggling and don’t feel like they’re improving. 

If boredom is the issue, changing things up helps, such as learning their favorite song, playing along with music they actually enjoy, or even finding a new teacher with a different approach. But if frustration is the problem, breaking things down into smaller steps can rebuild confidence.

Maybe It’s the Instrument, Not the Music

Yes, this can actually be a problem too! So, not every kid picks the right instrument on the first try. In an ideal world they would, but it’s not the case. So, that violin might be driving them up the wall, but they’d thrive on the piano. That trumpet might feel impossible, but the saxophone could be a perfect fit.

So, instead of ditching music completely, trying a different instrument might be the answer. Actually, it might help to look into band instrument rentals since this makes all of this easy, giving kids a chance to test out a new instrument without a major commitment. Sometimes, all it takes is the right fit to bring back the excitement.

Is Practice Killing the Fun?

This definitely deserves some attention! So, practicing the same scales every day? Well, that’s not exactly thrilling. Some kids lose interest because practice feels like homework instead of something fun. And honestly, if music only means drills and corrections, who would want to stick with it?

But what’s the fix? Well, to play real music. Just let them pick songs they actually like. Find fun backing tracks. Actually, just go ahead and encourage them to experiment, mess around, and even improvise a little. But overall, music should feel rewarding, not like another item on a to-do list.

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  1. Barrie says

    March 10, 2025 at 12:48 pm

    These are some good ideas. If our child made a commitment whether an instrument or sport, they had to continue it until the end of the semester/year.

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  2. heather says

    March 17, 2025 at 8:23 am

    These are some really good points for parents to be aware of.

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  3. Elizabeth says

    March 28, 2025 at 11:06 am

    There are a lot of factors (as I say as a former kid who needed to switch teachers for very complex reasons)…

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  4. Donna says

    April 6, 2025 at 8:27 am

    Very interesting insights! I think sometimes music loving kids just go through phases where their interests temporarily shift away from music as well.

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