In the busy lives that you lead, it is easy to feel like you’re being pulled in multiple different directions and you’ve lost yourself.
You have one million jobs to do, you want to be there for everybody else, be a rock for them, support them, take care of them and if you’re not careful you end up putting yourself on the back burner.
In order to be everything to everyone else, you need to put yourself first, and you need to demonstrate self-care. It really is as simple as just taken a moment to realize that you are important and making sure they are taking the time to meet your own needs and do things that make you feel good.
Self Care Is Not Selfish
It’s really easy to let your own personal self care fall to the sidelines a lot of the time. The main reason behind it is that you feel guilty when you start putting yourself first. However, this is not true the best way to consider self care is you taking the time to replenish what you need. What your body needs, your mind needs, and your soul needs in order to enable you to be the best version of yourself and therefore go ahead and take care of those that you love the most.
Set Boundaries
When you set yourself up on a routine where you are constantly giving to others, you are presenting yourself in a way that enables and encourages that behavior going forward, and whereby your assistance is to be expected. Of course, you will still want to support and care for those around you but it is important to do this in a healthy way. Once which allows you the opportunity to practice self care, by creating boundaries on how much you can physically and emotionally give to others without it impacting on your own well being.
Look After Your Body
When you find yourself being pushed to the limit and stretching yourself thin, it will have a knock-on impact on your physical well-being and health. Being able to generate the time to work on your own self-care not only will improve your mental capabilities but will also release positive hormones into the body. By being able to regularly work on your personal self care will allow you to look after all aspects of yourself better and see improvements when it comes to protecting your skin as well as seeing improvements with your hair growth.
Your Will Have Higher Self-Esteem
When you start making the time for yourself and start doing what you want to do for yourself, in your brain a positive message is being sent. This will release endorphins into your body which will not only increase your mood but will also generate feelings of self worth and increase your confidence. In addition to these positives, you will also be able to rediscover more of your own personal values and actively seek them out and chase your passions and things that you enjoy.
I live in a small Georgia town that you most likely have never heard of and I LOVE it! My house is more than full as I am a single mother of four & caregiver to my aging mother and uncle. Lover of all things Outlander. Goes to the beat of her own drum woman.