Pull up a chair. This week feels different — not dramatically so, not in a fireworks-and-breakthrough sort of way but in the subtle way you notice when your balance shifts just slightly and you don’t have to grab the wall to steady yourself. I’m not planted firmly yet. I wouldn’t go that far. But I’m…
At Home
Pull Up a Chair: March 6, 2026
Pull up a chair. March is here, and I wish I could tell you that I woke up on the first of the month feeling refreshed, reset, and ready to conquer the world. I didn’t. What I felt instead was something quieter — a kind of cautious steadiness. Not better exactly. Not worse. Just… here….
Pull Up a Chair: February 13, 2026
Pull up a chair, because this week calls for honesty—the quiet, uncomfortable kind that doesn’t wrap itself up neatly by the end. Winter weariness has settled in here, heavier than I expected, and I want to talk about it openly. Not dramatically. Not hopelessly. Just truthfully. If you’ve noticed that posts have been erratic lately,…
Welcoming February Gently
There’s something about the shift from January to February that feels almost imperceptible. The calendar page turns, but the air still feels heavy with winter. The days are still short. The mornings still ask for an extra cup of coffee. And yet, something subtle begins to change. February doesn’t rush in with bold promises—it arrives…
Pull Up a Chair: January 30, 2026
January is winding down, and I feel like I should be standing at the finish line waving a small flag, proud of having made it through the longest month known to mankind. January always feels like it has ninety-seven days, and this one came with its own special brand of tension, exhaustion, and adjustment. Still,…
Letters with Rita: An Introduction
Letters have a way of meeting us where we are. They don’t interrupt. They don’t demand an immediate response or flash across a screen while we’re in the middle of something else. They wait patiently—until we’re ready to speak, and just as patiently, until we’re ready to listen. That simple truth is the heart of…
Pull Up a Chair: January 9, 2026
Welcome to Pull Up a Chair 2026! If you’ve been around here for a while, you know that Fridays have always been reserved for a certain kind of post. The kind where we sit down together, talk about life, laugh a little, vent a little, and remind ourselves that none of us are doing this…
Update on Life and Stuff
2025 ended and to be honest I could not have been happier to see the back end of it. We had to move and the entire process was less than pretty. The entire reason behind us having to move, in my opinion, was just petty and wrong but there you have it. I won’t go…
Resetting for the New Year
There’s something about January that feels like a deep, cleansing breath. Not the kind you take when you’re bracing for something difficult, but the kind that fills your lungs and reminds you that you’re still here, still moving forward, still writing your story one ordinary day at a time. After the blur of the holidays—the…
Merry Christmas 2025
Merry Christmas, y’all! 🎄✨ I hope your day is filled with the warmth of family, the joy of traditions, and maybe a few new surprises under the tree. Whether you’re up at the crack of dawn opening gifts or taking it slow with a cozy cup of cocoa, may your heart be filled with peace…
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